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My good friend had sex with my brother.


Question Posted Sunday February 25 2007, 8:56 pm

A couple of weeks ago, I was supposed to go to this party with one of my good friends, but she ended up going without me. Let's call her Kaylee.

After that night, when we all came back to school, "rumors" were starting that my brother and her did things together. Of course they both denied it. I told her, honestly.. if you did do that, tell me the truth and I won't be mad. You know me better than that.

She kept saying "Wowwww, that's so gay. People are just saying stuff!" & I was like okay, but tell me the truth.

Last night, I didn't go to a party that everyone went to, so one of my friends called me saying I'm going to tell you this because you deserve to know. She said " Kaylee admited to me that the rumors are true and that she did have sex with your brother." I was in schock.

So I call Kaylee and comfront her about it and she's like Omg, I told you that it was a rumor. All I said to her was tell me the truth, you know I hate liers more than anything. She kept swearing that she didn't and she finally admited to me. I was really frustarted how my own BROTHER and one of my closest friends would lie to me about this.

My question is, has this ever happened to any of you & how did you react. Am I over reacting by beaing mad?

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Elegance answered Monday February 26 2007, 4:36 am:
Actually, you are overreacting.

Their sex lives are none of your business.

So what if she didn't tell you? She didn't want to. The fact that her partner was your brother does not mean that you are entitled to know. And I'm sure that little fact made it more than a little awkward for her.

I'd hardly call that the type of lying that deserves any kind of punishment. She said no because she didn't want to discuss it I'm sure. Not because she wanted to hurt you.

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christina answered Monday February 26 2007, 2:02 am:
Nope. That's totally freaky. I'd be pretty pissed off if my brother had sex with my best friend & then lied to my face about it. I'm dating my brother's best friend, and my brother knows, and doesn't care. So, I'm not holding back. But it's just weird. I know how you feel. One of my best friends dated my brother & I ended up hating her. We're friends now that they're broken up, but still. She lied to you about something knowing you dislike them. She broke your trust, they both did. Neither of them deserve it back.

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