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I dumped him but i knew he was gonna dump me..... what do i
In my last post i asked about my bf and i. he is 21 and iam 20. we were together 1 year and 3 times he dumped and of those 3 times 2 of them he came running back to me. He told me he didnt love me i wasnt pretty enough and he would basically withdrawl himself from me when he got angry then dump me. Then a week would go by and he would want me back. Its a cycle. Well he forgot something really really imporant and his main excuse was i forgot. I got really heated and screamed at him i hate u i hate u were over. Now that a few days have gone by i have noticed the cycle is the same. At first he blocked me from his aim list , now 2 days later he unblocked me. He signed up for a dating site ( like he did last time). Now usually i would im him for some stupid ass reason. We would talk for a bit . He would come over and we would have sex and then a few days later we are back together. He is doing everything i knew he would. The question is should i im him or just let it be and see if he comes to me. I dont know if i want him back but i have this pull in me not give up. Maybe i just want him to want me back. Do you all think he will try to come back to me if i just leave him be or just leave him alone and prepare myself to move on
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First off, I totally can relate to your situation. Lol. Been there... done that! Entirely!
What you have to learn, eventually, is that the reason it prolly isn't working out for you two right now is because your both a little young right now. It may be hard to believe, but not all 21 year old are grown up, mature, and ready to love the same person for the rest of their life! But, he wants to!
See, he wants to love you and thats why he keeps coming back. But.... he also wants his youth and his freedom and this is prolly where your problems lay.
I honestly think you should give him space and let him come to you. THIS IS WHAT I DID!
I love my ex boyfriend, always have, and always will. Last time he tried to get back with me, I wouldn't do it! Simple as that! I let him go and told him that he would come back to be when he was matured and grown up! NOW HE IS A MARINE! So.... you see, he listened to me! He is grown up, now, and we could now work as a couple.
I know its hard, but love isnt easy! Its easier to get revenge and be angry than to deal with your true feeling! Believe me! I don't want to love this marine who has broken my heart SO MANY TIME its un-imaginable! Honestly! But, I do! And... you will realize this is due to!
So... give him his space and let God take control! What is meant to happen, will BE in due time! I assure you, dear!
Best of luck, if you need anything, let me know! How a wonderful night.
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Okay. I know what young love is like. My SO and I have been together since we were 19. That's now 15 years ago. It's not that I don't understand.
People in love don't say things like 'I don't love you' or 'you're not pretty enough' or 'I hate you.' No matter how many times you try to make this work, it's not going to work. First, because you two are obviously not right for each other. Second, because you're too angry and too quick to hurt each other out of anger. You need to find a different relationship with, hopefully, more maturity.
Leave him alone. He's not pretty enough for you, okay? Mean what you say and say what you mean.
Sabine
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