ok, well...i'm 14/m...and i have an amazing girlfriend that i love SOOO much...but i have a lot of people that i kno that just...don't support my decision to be with her...there's kinda some good reasons for their argument but i hate it when they bring it up...
well, when i first met her, she was going out with this 21 year old, and he was a jerk, but she couldn't get him to leave her alone. this guy was horrible to her- apparantly he thought it was love...he's a weirdo...
well, he threatened to hurt her (and me, for that matter) unless she had sex with him, and of course, she wanted him to leave her alone, because not only was he being a horrible person to me, hejust wouldn't leave her alone...so she did it. and this guy left her alone.
and so everyone calls her a whore and all that stuff and she's not- she's not a slut, doesn't dress like one, is amazingly beautiful...but i feel like i'm the only one who sees that in her...
so i guess what i'm asking is- how can i get other people to see what i see in her? because honestly, none of my friends do...
thnx
Sam
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xcheerbabex108 answered Sunday February 25 2007, 8:34 pm: Well, people are going to be judgemental (sp), and you have to accept that. As long as you know the real her, and she knows the real you, I honestly don't think there's anything to worry about. People are gonna do that, just because a lot of people have nothing to talk about anyways, so in other words, that's their problem. If your friends are your real friends, then well, they should like her. But hey, you're the one dating her, not them. If you really do love her as you say you do, stay with her. You guys know what really happened, and if you ignore most of what people say, they will start to leave you alone. You're an amazing boyfriend, it sounds like, so really, good luck.
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