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Friends
Okay, I have a friend who I'll call Sara. So Sara and I have been friends for a few years and we pretty much spend alot of time together at school. We have some of the same classes together and we have lunch together. She always asks me for advice and I really don't mind giving her my opinion expcept for one thing. She is always fighting with this other girl and they are "best friends" off and on. When they fight she goes to me and asks for advice, so we give her advice, then her and the other girl make up and sara ignores me.
Long story short, I feel like I am her second choice. I've always considered her my best friend and I feel like she doesn't really care about our friendship. However I really don't want to sound like a whiny brat, and I think she would get upset if I told her that I feel negelected...Advice please?
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Well I think that it seems she doesn't always intentionally do it to you. Maybe she thinks that since you are always there to help her out with her problems when she isn't getting help from her other friend that she can come to you. What I would do is tell her that you appreciate that she trusts you enough to give her advice, but she shouldn't treat you like a second choice and just neglect you when your advice ends up working. You won't sound whiny if you tell her how you feel. If not, you'll just end up hurting and she won't know why.
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