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my (ex?) bff
I'm 14/f/tn
Okay well recently my best friend pretty much dumped me as a friend.. it was really stupid. I didn't really do anything to her, she's the one who told my secrets to people, chose her bf over me, ect. Anyways so I really miss her.. But i dont know how to approach her to fix things. She's about a year younger than me and is acting like a total brat but is a really awesome person most of the time and i miss talking to her. Like i dont want to be bffs again, i just want to be friends. I know you'll probably say 'why would you want to be best friends with someone who tells your secrets and chooses her bf over you' but she's better than that, she just changed this year. So any advice on how to talk to her? (I already tried flat out calling to apologize.) Thanks.
*Nikki*
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u should let her go if my best friend told secrets about that I told her to keep and chooses her bf over me then its no reason to be friends with her anyway
a real friend won't tell secrets that should have been kept between her an me and chooses her bf over me a real friend won't tell their secrets and they would do the right thing and break up with her bf cause friendship matters the most
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Well, if you want to be her friend you have to resolve things. You said you called to apologize to her - Why? You don't need to say you are sorry, you said you didn't do anything. If anyone should be saying sorry its her, because of getting mad at you for no reason. And you also said that she is acting like a total brat right now but yet she changed. I know you aren't looking for this but it doesn't seem like shes worth it.
Anyways, if you want to work things out with her you should find out why she's mad at you anyways. Maybe stick a note in her locker saying "Hey ___ i really want to work things out with you. i don't know what i did and i miss us being friends" or something like that. But you might need to give her some time, because she might not be ready to make up with you yet... but if she holds a grudge for a really long time she's really not worth the friendship.
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