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HOW COULD SHE DO THAT TO ME>?>!
Ok so about a month ago my friends mom called me asking if i had made her duaghter a myspace. I said yes because i thought she had meant *did* i make her one and she knew about that i mean i didnt make it with out her knowing and her mom "delted" it but its still there but any way so she started yelling at me and stuff and now well my BESTFRIEND isnt talking to me. My sister recently talked to her saying that it was a huge misunderstanding but she replied saying that people have said someone has been commenting them as her. . I havnt. So im on late at nite and i see that she has made herself or that could be someone else that has made her a myspace i was such in shock that my mouth was open for a about 5 minutes i finally added her seeing if she can be my firend. Im very upset though shes turned many people on me and i dont think shes supposed to have a myspace her mother said she wosnt supposed to and there she is online with a myspace. Should i tell my parents? should i show her mother getting her into truoble and suffering she has put me through? or should i just act like nothing happend and still talk to her? should i make new friends like new best friends? is what she did not a go back to friend too? i mean its not exactly a fight its really just a physco thing she thinks i did and there is nothing i can say to make her think i didnt. im very upset that shes turned most people on me i mean i dont know that for a fact but i will find out. it just hurts to see her doing that to me.
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Well, if she still considers you her best friend, she would listen to you. I mean, she can't just, all of a sudden, stop talking to you and blame everything on you just because her mother misunderstood something...Let her know it's hurting you. If it takes your parents to convince her and her mother, then do it. You don't have anything to lose.
Remember, your conscience is clean, even if the whole world thinks that you're guilty when you know (but can't prove) your innocence.
Tell your friend that this isn't something that's worth putting your friendship to such a risk. It's technology...it comes and goes. Best friends don't. The space will be deleted then created again. Best friends aren't like that..once they're gone, there's no 'undo' button.
Hope you'll make the right decision and I hope this helps.
Best of luck,
Kay.
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Well unfortunately there is nothing you can do to prove that it was a misunderstanding. I could understand why your friend would be mad because perhaps her mom told her the wrong story, since her mom didn't know you didn't realize what you were doing.
If you tell your parents your friend might be more mad at you, but if she isn't allowed to be on myspace, well, you make the decision. Its up to you to decide whether she should get in even more trouble or not.
If you pretend nothing happened and still talk to her she might be confused, but you can try it. As for the fact that she is turning people on you thats just really mean. If you want to try and resolve things, you can say something like, "I'm your best friend, I would never rat on you on purpose." she might realize that it really could have been an honest mistake. Everyone makes mistakes.
Sorry,..this wasn't the best advice but I hope its helpful anyways, lol. Well good luck
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