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i know its long. but i lost my best friend. please read. i r
so ..a little less than a month ago. i lost my best friend. because we got in an arguement.. and then the guy her, her sis and her mom were livng with beat up her mom and they had to move. we fixed everything with the arguement that we had...but she moved 45minutes away with her aunt. and her sister moved 4hours away with her grandmother. and it sucks. well..my friend decided she was gonna find a place here to stay so she couild finish up her senior year at our highschool. i offered to let her stay with me. and my family wanted her to stay with us. but..because her aunt doesnt like me...she couldnt move in with me. and now..she lives with this i used to be friends with but her and i drifted apart about a year ago. and i guess that s parents ...i dont know why..but they do..and now i cant even talk to my best friend because if she gets caught talking to me...then she gets kicked out of their house..and she doesnt want to be disrespectful to them after they took her in..i dont want to be selfish...because i know she has a lot of stuff going on in her life right now..but..i still have to think about myself. is that fair that i should have to wait until after graduation to even have a friendship with a ive been best friends with for a long time? just because people she knows dont like me? my friend will be 18 in less than a month..and the way i see it..once shes 18 shes pretty much free to do what she wants and stay where she wants to..am i wrong? i dont know really how to explain this whole situation besides by saying that it really sucks..because she keeps telling me that in a few months after graduation we can pick our friendship back up where we left it...but im really hurt by all of this. im hurt by the fact that just because people she knows dont like me..that i get pusehd off to the side..yet she can still call me her best friend? it just hurts..because i went from seeing her every single day..to not even being able to have a conversation with her..and she doesnt seem to care enough to talk to me. she thinks in a few months we can just pick up where we left off and everything will be fine..but im not sure that it will be..i want it to be..but im really hurt by all of this..and i dont know if i cant just brush if off my shoulders in a few months..HELP ME!! what should i do. sorry this is sooo long.
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hey, well i understand why she wont talk to you now. i think that she loves you and that she wants to be your bestfriend, but if she ever does get caught talking to you, she doesnt want to be left in the middle of the street with no where to go. i agree with you that when she turns eighteen that she should be able to live where she wants to. i think that the right thing to do would be to thank her aunt for letting her stay with, but then move in with you the day that she turns eighteen. she might loose her relationship with her aunt for the sole fact that she ended up moving in with you, but who wants to have a relationship with someone that blocks you from seeing your bestfriend of many years.
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