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ok so this is kind of a long question but...i like this guy.
i like this guy and i dont know if he likes someone else...some people say he might some people say he definately doesnt but...
ok so there was this school field trip that my whole grade went to except me and my friend...and i think im getting kind of jealous of my best friend because she's getting close to him...and she's closer to him than i am. anyway...so this is kind of like two questions...one: how can i get really close to him? i mean i try talking to him online but he just like gives really short answers and the convo stops there..like " so what kind of music do you like?" " good stuff. check my myspace music section". and i know it sounds weird..but it makes me really upset. so yeah how can i get close to him?. and two: how can i get over the jealousy??
please give answers
i really need help
thanks soo much!
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hey, well getting closer to him involves getting to know him. maybe he`s just shy? let him know that you want to get to know him. say something like "hey, you seem like a really cool guy and i would like to get to know you better". talking to him on AIM is a good start. that way if there are any akward silences, you can say be right back. there is also email and texting. those can be really easy too, rather than talking in person or on the phone. talk to him about things that happen in school. you know the classic things like "oh, i cannot believe how much homework mr. vanderman gave us". or "wow, i cant believe that lucy and bob are dating". another thing to talk about is sports. say you both play soccer. thats a good thing to talk about. just basically anything that you two have in common. what you don`t want to do is talk about something that you don`t know much about like baseball. i know your probably thinking "but hes interested in that and if i talk about that he`ll like me better". thats not true. he can sense when you dont know what your talking about by your "ohs" and "i sees". as for getting over the whole jealously thing, tell your friend to back off. explain to her that you like the guy and that your getting jealous of her getting so close to him. tell her that its not right to like the same guy that your best friend does and if you liked the guy that she did you would back off.
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