so ive let myself down so many times about my ex. he keeps coming bakk to me when he gets sikk of his other little sluts hes got on the side-and i fall for it everytime. he just has all the right things to say and does all the right things to make me forgive him. i dont know what to do- i dont know how to just STOP or SAY NO- i can ever say no to him. How do i just say no and break it off for good?? some one please help cuz this sukks!
-KKATIE
Brandi_S answered Monday February 19 2007, 2:18 pm: How do you say no? Next time he comes floating around, keep in mind that you deserve not to be treated like a rug for anyone to wipe their feet on, including him. Remember that you have learned from previous experiences with him that talk is indeed cheap. [ Brandi_S's advice column | Ask Brandi_S A Question ]
Alexandkendra answered Monday February 19 2007, 2:09 pm: I know what you feel like.
Its hard to say no to someone you like, its hard to say No to anyone.
Personally i cant say no to someone I hate,im always the type to say yes.
but You can start off by working your way up.
What i mean by that is ,forgive him a little bit but not totally.
Basically like get a little sterner with him, but not over powering.
Your still gonna like him for a while, I know that so im not gonna tell you to get over him because thats very hard.
Let yourself like him until you get over him naturally, it will eventually come.
But if you wanna get a little revenge, play a little game on him.
do the stuff he does to you.
I think you get what I mean :]
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