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(feels like)shes taking over
ok my best friend's birthday was on friday. for her birthday, she went to the movies with her other best friend( my xbest friend) and she spent the night at her house, yaddayaddaydadda
well my problum is, my friend barely even TALKED to me durring the weekend.
whenever shes around her other friend, she doesnt really talk to me too much, either.
also, for her birthday, her other friend baked her cookies and made her a card with a picture of her and pictures of all of her friends around it(my picture was mysteryously hard to reconize and a dark gray color) and i only had time to give my friend a cherry-cream filled hershy's kiss.
my point is, i dont want my friend to think her other friend cares more about her than i do, and i dont know how to show her that that isnt true. could some of you please give me some advice?
thanx much xoxo
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i too going through exactly the same problem..cant advice you much just suggest what i am doing for that... i am just helping her in whatever way possible but not expecting any thing of her... just doing a selfless service hoping that she would realise my importance... try this if you wish to... keep me informed if it works...
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You can't do anything to show her how much you care for her unless you spoil her to death but don't do that, that might be trying to hard. Maybe she wants to spend more time with other people too. But call her just to talk and maybe make plans for you two to do something together somewhere fun. Also find time to do stuff by yourself. Like for spare time teach yourself a magic trick, go to the library, volunteer work, get a journal or diary, go outside and shoot some basketballs, even reorganize your closest! But also make sure to not fight over your friend with the other girl, it wouldn't make things the best for your friend. You can also find other friends for you to hang out with so if one friend is busy maybe the other one is free. And its fun with more people right? Well I hope everything goes well for you!
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