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im in love with my best friend.
15/f
ok well ive been friends with this guy for about 6 or 7 years maybe even longer and well ive had feelings for him since the 4th grade (we are now in 9th grade)but i didnt say anything because i dont wanna ruin our relationship. But my feelings for him are getting stronger and idk what to do. I think there might be a chance that he likes me...He talks and messes around with me on the bus and on the way home from school when we are walking together he pushes me in the snow and other stuff, And when its rainy or really cold he will give me a ride home...
do you think he likes me?
should i ask him out or tell him how i feel??
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Guys are weird people. They act a certain way, like flirtacious but then they might not feel the same way. (speaking from previous expierences). I think he might like you or he might just be a good friend.
If I were still 15 would I would HONESTLY do is: first i would ask some of my friends the questions "do you think he likes me?" then if they don't know I would ask one of his friends but only under the condition that I sort of know them or am in like of the same classes. Bringing up the question "does he like me?" casually but at the same time making sure to say "because i heard that he did" or something like that.
If the answer is a Yes then I would take the initiative and tell him how I feel. Casually and calmly, from friend to friend. But it is really hard to admitt feelings for a friend. It takes a lot of courage. It also takes a lot of courage to ask someone out so I would get the 411 about if he likes you before hand.
Start to be a little more flity with him like linking arms or giving more hugs. Talking more and acting a little more romantic. It will help give signals that you like him (however, most guys don't understand signals.)
I hope I helped, I know how hard it can be to be in that sort of situation.
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