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Friendship Troubles
I want to let you know this might be long...
I just moved to a new town and made a bunch of friends, there is this one in particular(JADE) that I really connected with.
So around Decemeber she found a note in my backpack that had all my thoughts on it, like the stuff I'm going through like self esteem issues, frienship issues all the stuff I havent told anyone ever.
So i was mad at her but eventually we smothed things over. Our frienship was going alright for a while but lately she has been acting weird.
She won't talk to me as much, she seems a little disconnected with me. Not just all of her friends becuase she still talks to them and does things with them just not me.
I tried to talk to her about it but she just pretended like i hadn't asked.
I'm really confused as what to do becuase I want to talk to her about this and see whats going on but that dosent work very well becuase I have tried before.
I hope you can help, if you have any questions about anything just ask me! Thanks!
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Well i guess to start things off, the thing i ask myself in the beginning is why was she looking in your backpack ? she had no business to be in there AND take something from it to read. but since yous` patched things up, it shouldnt really matter.
I think she is acting like that because now shes actually thinking about what the note said. like everything that you wrote, shes realizing what it all said. which is making her " turned off " & maybe making her see you different.
I know you already tried to talk to her but i think you should try one more time. Maybe ask her to sleepover or call her on the phone, or even take a walk. which ever way is easier for you, but make sure its just you two, then you can see how she reacts and you have a better chance of getting the truth.
Start by bringing up the day she found the note but try not to say it like " member the day you went into my backpack " just say something like " im glad you found the note in my backpack " let her know that something like that should bring you two closer. friends need friends especially in tough situations. tell her that you wish she could explain how she feels. maybe you two could switch stories about your life so it wont be awkward ?
If this time is still not working and shes paying no attention, im very sorry, but i dont think she wants to be friends anymore. and all you can is at least i tried. if shes going to be stubborn and not want to understand that everyones` life is not perfect, then she is very stuckup and she needs to find friends like her because your not like that. there are so many other people out in this world that will be there for you without having to lie and not spending time with you.
-sorry that this was so long, i really hope that i helped. good luck & take care.
<3brianna
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