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he's not talking to me


Question Posted Friday February 16 2007, 8:00 pm

I have this guy in my class that we went out couple times, and I can tell he really likes me. But I have bf. After I told him that, he said it's better that he doesn't speak to me or see me anymore. (he wasn't mad at me, but just the fact that I have bf) But we are in the same class and need to work on the project together.
Now, he blocked me from the IM, don't reply emails/txt msg/calls, don't talk to me at all.
I know the fact that I have bf hurts him, but I like him as a friend, and don't want us to be this way. I don't want to lose a friend just because of this reason.

How do I tell him that?(if I can finger out how to make him talking to me) How do I make us still be friend?


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melmel92 answered Friday February 16 2007, 10:33 pm:
sometimes when guys like someone and they are rejected(such a harsh word but i can't think of anything eles) their pride and feeling get hurt so they think the best way to deal with it is to be detached my friend did this and we did have a project(actually happened) i just told him upfront that we have something stronger that could be in jeopardy if he continues this way. he got the message and finnaly go tover it after a long time so u shoudl tell him something like that it wont be easy but u must reassure him he is special to you
hope i helped

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runawayxlove answered Friday February 16 2007, 8:29 pm:
hey, well if he wont respond to any of your calls/messages, then you need to confront him. grab him in the hallway and have a talk with him. you could also go to his house and ask his parents for him, that way he wont leave you outside in front of his parents. explain to him what your explaining to us. another option would be a note in his locker.

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