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are we all falling apart or is it just me?
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Intro:
Ten years ago my favorite aunt on my mom's side died in a car crash with her son. My mom had a really hard time dealing with this. Then almost 3-4 years ago my uncle was caught dealing drugs. He was arrested in front of my young cousin and his daughter Trina*. That upset Trina really bad because she has never even been close to much of anything like that. That destroyed my family on my dad's side because then my aunt's husband started to talk crap on my uncle Steve*. My uncle Brett* was a real jerk and he was so mean to his kids. His daughter Kary* became a real slut and started dating my dad's live in working hand Trace*. Kary was 14 at the time and Trace was 24. It was disgusting because they kept it from her parents. Then two years late my brother Scott* died tragicaly. Then on my mom's side my grandpa died of cancer. Then my family was really going down the drain. On my mom's side not so much except my mom. On my dad's side their were so many fueds it was ridiculous. My uncle Brett was ruining Kary's life. She became an alcholic at the age of 16 and was constantly moping around. My dad's working hand Trace was really the only sane one in the family and he wasn't even in the family. So here is my question...
1) How do I get over all this?
2) How do I tell my family to get over all this and start acting sane?
3) And what do I do about my cousin Kary? I need to talk to her about her dad really bad.
4) And as for my mom she is constantly crying. It gets me down bad and I can't stand to here it every night how do I help her?
5) And lastly my dad is really getting rude and he won't talk to me about it when I bring anything up. He is constanly not letting me talk and is always griping. How do I talk to him.
Sorry this is so long guys but I've got a lot of problems right now. Anything will help
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well my life was falling apart to.....but no offense not as bad as you. well you need to express your feelings more to your family and as for your cousin i really don't know what to say she needs to be put somewhere that can get her help and that would be the best advice i can give your right now i mean i know it's really rough cuz my mom went crazy and so did like6 of my othe family members but it all worked out.
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