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kiss
14/f
today -> one month anniversary
we haven't kissed yet
we're both SUPER shy
i want him to kiss me and i'm pretty sure he wants to kiss me too but who should make the first move??????????????????????????
we're in the same class but we keep out relationship one the DOWN LOW so we can't really be like i love you blah blah blah in front of other people
we hardly talk in class cause we're SHYYY
how do i start talking to him or flirt or something cause i don't really know him that much but i'm hoping i can so that i wont be shy around him??????????????????????????
So .. any advice? Thanks in advance.
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aww. This is exactly like my new boyfriend and i. We are both soo shy around each other. I FINALLY hugged him today. Hang out with eachother this weekend and YOU make the first move. It will be easy once you get started. Boys like it when you make the first move :)
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Dear "kiss",
If you have been dating this guy for one month already and don't feel like you really know him it's imperative that open up communication with him if you want your relationship to last. Talk to him about how you feel about stuff, even simple things like a book your reading in the class your both in or that really hard homework assignment. Something you can both relate to so he can get in on the conversation too. The only way to become more comfortable together and loose that shy feeling is to get to know him. People love to talk about themselves so ask him about something you know he's into. If you hit the right topic he will totally open up.
My advice on the whole kissing thing is wait until you know him a bit better. You don't want that to be what your relationship is based around. The best relationship all start out as friendships so first become his friend; when the time is right for you guys to kiss you'll know it. And when you feel that moment come if he's acting to shy then you make the first move-- it may really impress him.
Best of luck! If you need anymore help you can e-mail me at AskKambrey@yahoo.com I'de love to help any way that I can.
~Kambrey
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hey, well it seems to me like your talking as if you have a crush on him and that your not in a real relationship. maybe thats what you guys should do. just stay at crush level. considering its been a month of no kissing and basically no talking. your relationship shoudlnt be on the down low. you shouldnt care what others think if you love each other. if thats not the case and your just embarassed of each other then you definately shoudlnt be togehter. wait till your more comfortable with one another, then start re-dating.
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