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My best friend is upset with me.. Somewhat long, so thanks i
I'm a 16/f and one of my really good friends, Matt, is a 16/m. Now, I became really close with him last year, and now I sit at a lunch table with him and 8 other guys (I'm the only girl). Well, at my lunch table, there's this other guy, Tyler, that is also in my homeroom. I've become pretty good friends with Tyler this year, but no where near Matt and My relationship. Now, Matt has a girlfriend of over a year, but a lot of my friends are convinced we have something going on. But my friends also think that Tyler and I may develop into something, and I'll admit that I've been thinking about Tyler a little more romatically lately, but I swear I don't show it.
So today I told Tyler that I got him a shot glass in South Carolina (because he asked me to). And Matt looked at me and said "You've Changed so much since last year." and "you used to be so nice to me, you're just so different" (I'm never mean to the kid at all) and he was like "You're all over Tyler. You should just date him already, its not like things would be different" (no one was listening, so he didn't call me out in front of everyone or anything). Then I asked him if he was mad and he was just like "I don't know.." and looked away. He seemed more hurt than mad. And It broke my heart because I adore this kid, and I don't know what to do.
So my questions- What do you think brought all of this on? & How should I approach him about this tomorrow? Thanks so much for your help.
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Honestly what i think is matt is jealous. i really do. i think he liked having a real close relationship with you. but maybe when matt got a girlfriend you two came apart not alot but alittle. thats what you might not realize especially when you have someone else on your mind. matt just has to realize that he has a girlfriend, and you cant spend your time up his a^^ all of the time. i mean after all you deserve a love life of your own right ? those words he decided to say, were out of jealousy. maybe he didnt mean them but i can tell thats what hes feeling. tomorrow confront matt ( private ) and tell him that you both deserve your own love lives although that doesnt mean you cant talk about it with eachother, just that you two are really good friends and if you end uhp with tyler, it wont change the relationship you and matt have. which brings me to my next advice, see how things go with tyler. get to know him more and dont push him away. you never know what could happen! best of luck.
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