Question Posted Thursday February 15 2007, 9:05 pm
This boy hes my friend and i think he likes me as more then a friend and i'm a bit scared if he asks me out bc i dont want to go out but hes like really nice so i dont know how to say know if it happens...Like in gym were doin like mounts and every time he says can i do mounts with you guys and i'm always like sure but i dont want him holding me up i'm shy about that kinda stuff you know? What do i do? :(
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? statz27 answered Sunday February 18 2007, 9:17 pm: i think i know what your going through, i kinda had the same thing happen to me, where you want to say no but you still want to remain friends without anything changing? here's my advice: when you do mounts, try and change the subject, casually of course, but like pretend you didn't hear him, talk to your friends about something that just happened at lunch or whenever. if that doesn't work you could have a convo with him, tell/ask him who he likes, or you tell him first who you like (make someone up if you have to)...or truthfully id be real honest and say "i don't really see you in that kinda way" if hes a true friend he'll understand. yes he will be a little hurt but he will understand and be glad you told him rather than keep him playing for your attention. hope it helped, and sorry it took so long for me to answer. good luck [ statz27's advice column | Ask statz27 A Question ]
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