okay so i have this ex boyfriend who hurt me real bad and i have been moving on which i figure is best to do. Well he keeps calling my one friend and bothering her saying stuff like its funny how someone you consider your best friend talks crap on you when i didnt say anything. Then he will call her and say stupid fat whore and hang up. Then on the 8th about 2-3 days ago he called me, i know this because he is the only one who calls on a withheld number but i didnt answer, that would of been the day of our three month. What should i do about this, he is being very immature and i am speaking of an 18 year old here.
ciao77 answered Sunday February 11 2007, 2:06 pm: Wow, when I was reading through this, I thought you were talking about a 14 year-old. I guess some people never really grow up.
I personally think that the best way to go about something like this is to simply ignore it. It may be hard, but continue not to answer his calls (you also say he has a withheld number). Also, encourage your friend to do the same...and she can just forget about talking back, cause what i know from experience, is that the more you show something bothers you, the more someone persists in their ways. Good for you for not answering his call; it demonstrates your maturity. Trust me though, he will get the point and get over it. [ ciao77's advice column | Ask ciao77 A Question ]
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