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Unexpected Crush
There is this guy who recently broke up with his long-term girlfriend whom he's known for at least 5 years now. The thing is that they have been on and off throughout these years and I don't like try to get myself into that type of information/drama. The problem is, recently it seems like they haven't been talking to each other for a longer time than usual. Personally it doesn't really matter to me, until a few weeks ago the guy started joking around with me, saying that i'm going to ask him out to a school dance. I went along with it because it was hilarious but I never actually thought that was going to happen because he might still get back together with his ex so it was just all really funny humor. This continues for the longest time, he would link arms with me when we walked to class and my friends would just joke about it. Up until this week I asked someone what was up with his and his ex. They said to not worry about it and that I won't get his ex mad if she saw him being all touchy with me. So after that I seriously considered asking him to go as a friend cuz he kept reminding me everytime I saw him.
Anyways, what was weirder was that I had a dream where he was my bf which made this scene completely change. I woke up feeling all weird inside...and I wanted to see if my mind would change back to normal. I saw him that day and he acted the same which made me even more confused. My feelings grew stronger, but I didn't know if I liked him or not...and I don't know if I even SHOULD because he might still have a chance at his relationship with his ex. Today I found myself wanting to talk to him and getting jealous when he talked to other people...especially his ex. He kinda stopped talking to me because before everytime we would " joke" about going as dates I wouldn't really respond to his flirting. I never had a bf before and I never really actually came close to that stuff at all. But now I feel worse than ever because I don't knwo how to explain how I feel. Does a dream reallly change everythign? or is this my own concious acting on me because I've never had anyone treat me like that and its just some type of physical attraction that doesn't really mean anything? I really don't know what I should do...
Sorry about such a long and confusing story> I just really needed to sort my mind out. Please help!
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Ok so after reading everyone elses advice. I came up with my own but I think its going to be different. The same thing happened to me.I know its becuase you don't have a boyfriend and the thought of having one makes you happy. I actually don't think u are crushing on this guy. I think its all in your mind. U probably just want a boyfriend so bad that since he came along you decided to take that chance. Don't confuse yourself. Just answer this question to youself. Did you ever like him before he started flirting with you...and while he was still with his ex??.
I belive that if you answer yourself that question you will know if you actually do like him or if its just in your mind.
I really can't help you answer that question because you have to searcha deep inside only you know.
Hope I helped<3
Xoxo johanny
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I believe that dreams give you the answer to questions that you can't work out in your conscious mind.
Usually if you're stabbing a friend in a dream, it's not out of the blue and you probably have underlying issues to discuss with your friend.
Because you're having such a hard time comprehending that you have a crush on him, your subconscious mind has already figured it out? Take it as a hint, you show all the signs of having a crush on him. Trust your instincts.
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