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hooking up
I hooked up with this guy in early January. We haven't talked since-except for a simple "hi." We were friends before. Tomorrow is our dance and people have told me he is going to try adn hook up with me again. I will admit, I wouldn't mind it cause I liked hoking up with him before. BUt I don't want to be his hook up buddy either. Should I just not hook up with him even though I wouldn't mind it? Or what?
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My opinion? Though you wouldn't mind this hook up, why do you want to disrespect your own feelings for it? You said you don't want to be his hook up buddy, so don't be.
Think of it this way- how did it make you feel after this happened the last time? Used, maybe? Yah. Probably because, used, you were. To do it again would just bring back all of those feelings. It's not worth it.
Save it for a guy who wants to be with you for more than just an occasional hook up.
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if you dont mind it. and its fun. then go for it. dont let ur pride stand in the way of what you want.
or you will regret not having fun.
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