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trust issues
i think my gf lied to me. she sed she doesnt like patrick, a guy in one of her classes. i dont really talk to him that much. i checked her myspace (same passwrd of her email that she told me) and saw a msg that said she liked him. i asked her if she liked him and she swore to me she didnt. im upset cuz she said she flat out she didnt like him ever, but so then why did she send that msg to someone? should i tell her i saw it by going into her myspace, or should i just forget about it? two wrongs dont make a right but i dont know this time here
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I don't think you should bring up "I went into your myspace" it would be invading her privacy... [even though she did tell you]
My question is: How long have you two been going out?
Of course she won't tell you the truth. She might hurt you and she doesn't want that *now* at least. In the message.. did she say anything about liking him more than a friend? Because I guess you could just like somebody .. as a friend.
She probably does like him. But since she's with you.. she won't do anything.
I don't think it's good to tell her that you read her messages and that you know she lied. There's just some trust issues you both need to work on.
You could try talking to her. As calmly as you can. Tell her you won't be mad at her [and don't pretend to be okay about it either] and that you know she likes the guy. It can be just a 'crush' and it could fade away quickly.
You could .. just forget about it for the time being but if she becomes distant then you really need to talk to her.. and possibly end the relationship. It's not fair that she likes someone else. You don't deserve that.
Just do what you feel is best. Pay attention to the way she treats you.
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