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The most heart broken thing ever happened to me.

Question Posted Thursday February 8 2007, 7:49 pm

I really need a advice! I went out with this guy for one year and four months. we shared everything, he promised me lot of things. I got raped one day by my best friend, his feelings changed big time. He started feeling nervous around me. Later, he broke up with me because lot kids are trying so hard to break me and my exboyfriend up. We became best friend, and two weeks later, he asked me out again but kept our realtionship low. Yesterday, he broke up with me again because hes not interesting in our realtionship, i was hoping we will beome best friend again, but instead i found someone else and we talked. I putted his name on my away msg. my ex boyfriend got mad, he kept on calling me slut because he thinks i just go for the guy i like for his gential place. Its not true what can i do to solve this? I tried so hard to get out of this crazy situations but my exboyfriend starts everything again i tried to be nice and he kept being so mean!

I am 15 years old. I am female :) im Reina.

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orphans answered Friday February 9 2007, 12:09 am:
Poor girl, 15 years old and already u have been through so much. I really wish the best for u.
What I thing you should do, is spend some time alone. You are young anyways. Forget all about them boys and leave them all behind no matter how strong are your feelings towards them.
Maybe in the future you ll get together with one of them, but for now, you need to find yourself.

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audra answered Thursday February 8 2007, 11:01 pm:
i am sorry for your horrible experience, and that your ex was unable to be the solid rock for you and your relationship in your time of need.

though this is not what you may want to hear right now, you are better off without him in your life.

he broke up with you, twice; and then he feels like he has a right to call you a slut when HE is the one that didn't want to be in a relationship with you?! WTF? he needs a reality check, and he needs to learn to grow up.

i say move on with your life, tell him that he made a choice for both of you, and he needs to learn to deal with it just like you have learned to deal with it.... does he not ever want you to be happy ever again?


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