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need someone to talk to
14/f
lately ive been just down. durning cheerleading practice (im very involved in cheerleading,its pretty much my life) im not doing as good and I feel fat because i am the biggest flyer and weigh just as much as the girls that lift me. other than that, i get realy stressed at school because my one teacher sucks at teaching. then my family just bugs the shit out of me alot too. also with my love life ive been threw alot and now i dont think my heart can fall for someone the same since what happened to me before. and i get so self conscience and i try to work out but let myself go and its just really stressful.
i just think i would feel 10 times better if i had someone to talk to besides friends. but i dont want people saying "i.m me" blabla when they havent experianced stuff that im going/gone threw.. which is sex, heartbreak, being used, multipul mood swings, unable to like someone for real, cheerleading stress (or anything with weight).
i apperiacte any help what so ever and i have my own column but can't figure out my problems. all you columists keep up the great work.
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if nothing else i can listen. you may feel uncomfortable talkign to someone you don't know anythign about. I can understand that.
You seem liek a very nice person, one who does'nt deserve all this stuff thats going on. Just keep in mind that the things that have happened to you have made you who you are, and that's something beautiful
I know most of what you've gone through.. execpt for the cheerleading stuff, but i'm physically male so... yeah..
Solemnstar
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FLYER ADVICE: Hey, look at it this way. You are a flyer, you must be good at something! Smiling is important, you must have a pretty smile. As for the fat problem, your not. I was one of the biggest flyers last year. I was tall and petite. What more can I say? Oh, yeah. I am a base this year. It is fun to. I know you probably don't want to give up flying because it is so fun, but next year if you want you could possibly change to basing or back spotting. All positions are fun.
TEACHER ADVICE: We all get at least one teacher each year that doesn't do their job properly. We just have to live with it and hope for a better teacher in that subjet next year. Or, you could confront her/him. Tell them you would like some extra practice.
FAMILY ADVICE: Families tend to bud all teens. It is part of growing up. Instead of beating up your little brother, go to your bedroom and do extra credit work, if possible, I recently did and it helped me out tremendously.
LOVE LIFE ADVICE: At your age everyone is just discovering their love life. It may take another year to find a guy worthy of a relationship with you. Right now, everyone just looks at looks. In a year or two, people will see you for who you are. I tend to find that older boys like me more. Since I am not the "pretty preppy type" , but I am nice, they care.
Take care, and feel free to ask me more questions.
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