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guys. ahh!!
ok i feel really bad.
i lvoe having a chase. i love it when guys play hard to get. it makes me have a challenge and want them more. but i dont liek it when there like saying how they dont like me and then all of sudden they love me. thats not what i like. i liek it when the guy knows i like him. i especially like it when i just found out that he found out and i get really nervous. and then i like how they play really mysterious nad well hard to get. and like i dont like it when they jsut snap out of and ask me out. i would liek it if they just ease up a tad. maybe like by 1% each day. but still play hard. and liek after we go otu i still liek having a challenge so that its a fun relationship. and i liek being single and saying how he will never have me!! i dont know hwy. im liek really retarded. haha. do guys see htis as a turn down? i mean i will go out with them no matter what becuase i liek them but i still want a challenge. and i put up a challenge to. but i hate it when im the only one giving the challenge. liek if your not a person hoo challenges then like thats a turn off for me. is this a turn off on guys? or do they not like this? is this like nto normal? ahh. so confused. btu i love it!! like right now i like this guy.. and my friend told him.. and so i started spazzing out. but i liekd it. im liek ok now i have to bewared of when i stare and stuff. btu then he said im cute. but not beautiful ro if he liked me. but that im cute. so its keeping me confused. so i like it lol. but still i know i dont have a chance. lol see i lie kthis!! haha. ok i love being single. anyways is this normal?
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I think it's normal. It sounds to me that you prefer the chase to the capture. If you don't mind having a series of short, noncommitted relationships that never get serious, there's nothing really wrong with your approach. There are plenty of guys out there who will want to play the same game you are, pursuing and flirting, having fun with the pursuit and then maybe culminating in a few dates. If you aren't looking for anything long-term anyway, then there's not a problem.
When the time comes that you want a more serious relationship, though, you'll need to alter your approach. What you're doing now is going to attract guys who aren't seeking commitment (again, nothing wrong with that as long as you aren't looking for it either). The only problem I foresee is that by the time you want something long-term, you may have firmly established a reputation as a girl who doesn't settle down with one guy for any length of time, and that's going to discourage the guys who want a committed relationship.
As long as you're careful not to cross the line between "flirty" and "slutty", though, I don't think it'll be a big deal. Enjoy the dating game for now.
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