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hm okay well i would love ANY answers :] thanks so muchh..
this story is going to be kind of pathetic. well back in the 7th grade my friend emily and i exchanged screen names of some of our friends so that we could meet new people. i started talking to one of em's friends, pat. pat's in the same grade as us and he lives in the same town too, but he just goes to the private school in our town and we go to the public. anyways, so i started talking to pat for about a year, over the internet at all times of course since i never met him before. well we ended up loosing touch after a while and i forgot his screenname...but then i began talking to him again in october (2006) through my friend jason. jason is one of my guy-friends and jason&pat are pretty much best friends. well by then pat&i both had myspaces and it turns out pats really hot. (i still havent seen him in person at this point) and i guess he felt the same about me because soon after we had a few convos and began talking on the phone with jason & some other people on 3-way, pat told a couple of our friends (who passed it onto me) he really likes me and wanted to go out. he "asked me out" a few days later. by then i developed a major crush on him even though it was only through the internet and phone. so i guess we "went out" for about a week. we broke it off when we decided that there was no point in "being together" if weve never even seen eachother in person. but now its so awkward between us. pat&i have been through a lot & even though none of it has been face to face, theres been a lot of feelings between us. and i mean, ive been crazy for him since november-ish. so i guess i really do want to meet him, but i just dont want to get my hopes too high, because he could look nothing like his pictures and act like a total jerk, who knows. and i dont want him to think that I`M ugly or weird or anything like that. im just totally afraid our friends will make it even more awkward or something, or i wont like him when i meet him, or whatever. i dont know. i really would just like for someone to tell me what i should do. in person or not, i still really have strong feelings for him and i care for him way more than i have cared about any other guy i've been with. even though i only really know him as a person by his screen name and phone number, i still really like him a lot. what should i do?
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Call him and ask him to meet you somewhere. Bring friends though so it's not totally weird.
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I think you should both take a chance
and meet each other. You two could be totally
right for each other, then again you could
be totally wrong for each other. You'll never
know unless you take a chance.
Set it up as a neutral situation: you
both should bring two friends just to be
safe. Meet each other at local hangout,
bowling or whatever. I don't really recommend
the movies cause you two wouldn't get to know
each other well because you don't talk much
during movies. But hey, if thats your thing
then go for it.
When getting ready for the hangout,
try not to over do it. Just be yourself,
because if you put on a fake act you're going
to have to keep up with it as long as you
know each other. Just wear cute clothes,
wash up and do your make up nice, and
pop in a breath mint just in case.
Also, when taking friends with you,
talk to them ahead of time and ask them
to be chill about all of this. I'd recommend
bring friends that wouldn't put you in
awkward situations such as "Just ask him out
right now!" when you're standing in front of
him, that can get things messy. Just make sure
they're reliable.
Just take a chance, you'll never
know until you try.
Good Luck<3
Inbox me and let me know how
things go.
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just meet him in person. if you meet him and your feelings go away, then it was just infatuation. if you still like him after you meet him, which you probably will, maybe you guys will get together again.
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