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alright but like one thing is i have this friend. like we are BEST friends. but problem is, she like doesnt stop following me. like i can be standing there talking to someone and then she'll come up and stand next to me and just like wait for me to be done talking to them and if i dont, she'll like tap me on the shoulder. im like her only REAL friend. like serosuily. she'll ask if i can hang out all the time and hey like why not but like she'll get all jelous over everything. like one time i was doing a sport "JACKIE" and she got all mad at me because i didnt ask her and i didnt tell her. and then she asked if i could hang out one day and i told her i had plans and shes like with who (shes so nossy and like, serosuily, omg) and im like "JACKIE" and then shes like oh and later she starts crying about how she thinks shes losing me as a friend because i didnt hang out with her ONE TIME. pretty much, shes a shawdow and kinda like .... ruins my chances making new friends and kinda excludes me from everyone else because she'll get all mad if im not paying attention or anything with out her. SHES MY SHAWDOW AND LIKE, PRETTY MUCH HATES WHEN I TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE AND LIKE.. its anyoying... how am i suppose to make friends if she gets mad or anyoyed if i dont talk to her. its gay. and like the thing is i have a hard time doing things on my own. so like i wanna do this one sport after school and i dont know anyone in it. like no friends in it (its guy and girl) and like... my friend was ganna do it but she tottally bailed on me. and so i skipped it twice because im scared to go in there and do it on my own and like meet new people. like i dont know if popular kids or w.e. are doing it but what ever its new people. and like yeah.. my dad wants me to do it to but i really dont know. im not all that amazing at the sport but im OKAY. any adviceee? =]
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Ok I know how you feel about this girl. I have a like "shadow girl" named Olivia. She was slitting her wrists at the time and I like became her friend and stopped her. Now she follows me everywhere and yea. If you really want to get rid of this girl then try introducing her to other people. This way if she meets other girls she may stop following you. If she doesnt then tell her straight out you need some space. I think you should stay her friend because she definately likes you but try to distance yourselves. Seriously try to get her more friends. My girl Olivia has like 4 other ones now so if I want time alone ill tell her and she'll see one of them. I can see why she's nosy cause she doesnt want to loose you but you cant let her ruin your chances to make new friends. Dont let her exclude you from other people because she wont be there forever so you need to have more friends. Many people have "shadows" and in a way you should be flattered because that means someone really looks up to you. Let her get mad. She needs to get over her jealousy because a true friend doesnt get jealous like that. You really need to explain to her that you want to meet new people and she should be happy for you.
Also with the sport thing: I think you should join it. Sports are a very good way to meet new people. As you stregthen as a team you'll become closer as friends. If you really enjoy this sport then it is definately one thing that you have in common with these girls and guys. Its a good way to meet guys too cause many guys like athletic girls. You dont have to be amazing. Maybe practice more but if your ok youll be fine. It will seem acward at first since you dont know anyone but all you have to do is first stay focused on the sport and maybe while your practicing with some girl you an start up a conversation. Same thing with guys. I definately think you should go for it and dont skip any more practices :P! Ok I hope I helped and dont be sorry your asking me questions I dont mind it at all. You could ask me 50 questions and I wouldnt mind. so to sum up my advice:
1.) Get some space between you and the girl
2.) JOIN JACKIE!!
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