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Boys..againn


Question Posted Friday February 2 2007, 9:57 pm

Sorry if im badgering you but its not that i care if people think the age is weird. I could not care less! As long as id get the boy id be so overly happy that nothing would matter!! Just the leep of going from strangers to aquaintences is an extremly hard stretch. Like its so random to see him and be like so..... i hear you play hockey. Your advice is deffently right just its really hard to take it. I appricate your time and help so much. Just put your self in my position. Random Freshman with screwed up backround (long story, i may need some advice on that a diff time) Like Hott Senior. Never spoken only once on the Freshman retreet were he helped. He knows i have a litle crush on him. Its just random and hard to make that stretch. Hope you an help.
And i fyou ever need anyting, im ehre for you as well


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Brandi_S answered Friday February 2 2007, 10:16 pm:
I agree, it is a hard stretch. Put myself in your position... I can try to do that.

Ok, I am in your shoes. I really like this guy I hardly know. How am I going to give myself the confidence to turn something random into something real?
Keep in my mind my chance is out the door come May. Once graduation gets here, he will likely be out of my life forever.

Do I let him walk out of my life and wonder "what if" or "what might have been," or do I take a deep breath, walk up to him, and say "So, I hear you play hockey. Can you tell me about it sometime? I'd like to know what it's like."

It is a risk to talk to him, but it is a risk to just let him go. What if he likes you, but doesn't know quite how to act on it? Guys can be bashful, too.

The worst he can do is say he isn't interested. I know, rejection sucks. I hate to be rejected, too, but it really isn't the end of the world, I promise. At least if he says he isn't interested, you will know for fact rather than wondering if you made a mistake by letting an opporitunity pass.

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