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tearing the hymen
so i am 15/U.S./female
So I am a virgin. My boyfriend isn't. Basically everyone thinks that i am not a virgin because they heard rumors that i sleep around. Anyway, I really want to lose my virginity to my bf. How do I prevent my hymen from bleeding when he puts it in??
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There is no way to prevent or encourage bleeding the first time you have sex. To make things as comfortable as possible for you, though, there are some things you CAN do.
First, make sure you feel emotionally ready for sex. Consider how this might affect you as an individual, as well as your relationship. Next, make sure you feel physically ready when the time comes. If you are sexually excited you will natually produce lubricant, and your vagina will be easier for your boyfriend to enter.
Is your boyfriend not aware you are a virgin? You may want to consider telling him, as this may make him more gentle or understanding. You may also want to consider entering a sexual relationship with someone you don't feel comfortable telling you are a virgin. If he DOES know, ignore this paragraph!
You are unlikely to bleed large amounts. Still, be aware that some spotting might happen. Bring along a pad or pantyliner to keep your panties clean afterward.
Large amounts of blood, any amount of blood that does not stop within a reasonable time, or ongoing pain of any sort is not normal and requires medical attention.
I wish you the best.
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