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how to get a boy i really like!!
ummm..i really like this boy for months and i want advice on how to talk to him and how to ask him out!!
please help!!:(
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Hey, sorry for the slow response. The problem you are having isn't about knowing what to say or do. It's about being afraid that you'll mess up. You know what to say. You know what's going to work and what's not. You don't need advice about what to say because everything you need to know is already in your head. The problem is that your nerves are clouding your thoughts.
The thing with asking someone out, it's not even always what you say, but how you say it. Confidence is the most important thing. Confidence is attractive. It doesn't matter what you say or do as long as you are confident about it. It's alright to be nervous. Everybody gets nervous, but don't be afraid. Go out and take a chance. Be confident. If you mess it up, the world keeps turning. You'll feel bad about it for a few days, but after that, it's all in the past and you can always try again.
My advice for you would be to flirt with him for a week or so to let him know that you are interested. Asking him to go out with you out of nowhere might surprise him into rejecting you. Take your time and try to be as confident as you can. You know what you want and you know how to get it, so go out and do it. Good luck! :)
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