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my boyfriend and me
hi my name is lolo im 16 and i just needed a little bit of advice concerning me and my boyfriend, well we have just started gon out a few days before christmas and no the excitment seems like it has died down extremely too low, and it seems as if everything i say to him he fusses back with me like i said something wrong and all i do is share my feelings with him truthfully and he talks to me like he doesnt believe me, and it feels like, why even talk to him if he doesnt believe a word i say, and he argues with ever single thing, and i really love him alot bt i want him tothink about things b-4 he critizes. what should i do? signed lolo3847
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It seems like you're trying to talk to him open and honestly, but he just isn't listening to you.
You need to think about what you deserve from a boyfriend. You deserve someone who's going to listen to you, believe what you're saying and respect your views. It's really important that you understand what you deserve from a boyfriend, don't let anyone push you around.
At the same time, make sure you're taking the time to listen to what he's saying. It may seem annoying and frustrating that he's arguing with you all the time, but listen to see if he has a valid point and take it on board if he does.
So I think you have two options.
If the two of you are going to stay together, he needs to understand how you're feeling. Write him a long letter, explain everything, what you want to say to him, ow it feels when he critises you, why you don't like him arguing with everything you say. Tell him you love him but let him know how you feel because if he really loves you, he'll listen and do smoething about it.
However, if the excitement is gone, and you're not happy in a relationship, get out of it. When we're only 16, you can't expect relationships to last forever, and if it's not working ,dont stay together for the sake of it, get out before you get hurt. You deserve to be happy.
Good luck, and God bless xxx
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