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girl trouble
hey! I'm 13 years old and i live in North Carolina and i'm a guy. I reallllllly like this girl and when i asked her out, she rejected me. she said she only sees me as friends and nothing more. That was like 2 weeks ago, but i still like her. She was the 1st girl i truely liked and she rejected me. What should I do?
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There's two ways to approach this. She either a) feels the same way about you but is too afraid to admit it or b) sees you as just a friend, nothing more.
The first option, though more favorable to most people, is unfortunately less likely. Depending on how close friends you are already, she may not want to ruin the friendship you have by going out with you. The easiest way to lose a best friend is to date them. Once you go out with someone, it's ever the same afterwards. Sure, you'll still be friends, but it's just... different. She could also be very nervous and too afraid to admit her true feelings. If you want to know if this is the case, wait awhile before you approach the subject.
The second option, as I've already brushed on, is often the result of not wanting to destroy a friendship. Or, she may only like you as a friend. And really, there's nothing wrong with that. Friends will always stick around more than a girlfriend will. They'll always be there for you when you need to talk or need a shoulder to cry on (you probably will at some point, haha). Be the friends you want to be (even if you may want more). Don't treat her any differently just because she may not feel the same about you. Eventually, her feelings about you may change. Even if they don't, you'll have a good friend out of the situation. And nothing's wrong with that, right?
So, in conclusion, keep an open mind. You'll never forget your first love. Keep an eye on her if you want, but remember that there's other girls in the world that like YOU!!
hope I helped and didn't ovewhelm you! If you have more questions don't hesitate to ask me.
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