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my friend's family problem Please help my friend's family problems?
my friend is having such a hard time with her family life,like she feel so bad and so sad and shes really hurting about her dad and her mom is divorsed cause her mom wants her to choose whether to go with her or her dad and her dad was like he isnt gonna pressure her to go with him or anyone that its her choice and that if she do choose her mom of course it will make him feel bad but he just wants me to be happy. and i dont know what to say about her family problems please help! what should i say to her? please and thank you
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sound like you need to talk to the both of them. @ the same time if u cant. tell them is there a way you could be with both like a week @ moms a week @ dads?or which ever way you can all agree on. and it depens on your age i mean there are a lot of things you need mom there for especially around 13. but you also need your dad for when a guy makes you mad he can tell you how special you are and what they have lost. i dont mean to confuse you but the truth is you need them both and you sound try talking to them 2 see if joint custody is a option ]
Set up a sleepover night with her. tell her she could tell you anything, and you can help her out. maybe do something relaxing to help her get it off her mind for a little while. tell her no matter who she chooses, both her parents will always love her as much as they do now. hope this helps ]
the best thing you can do is to listen, say your sorry, and hug her.
just show her you care.
hope i helped
Jess ]
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