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my dad's anger problem
My dad has a huge anger issue! He always yells at me, even when I have done nothing wrong. He'll tell me I am not smart, wise, or I can never shut up and stop complaining. He is always throwing my school books around, even when it is not in his way, and makes me pick it up. He doesn't do that to anyone elses stuff. He throws shoes at me, hits me, and throws anywhere from pencils to hardbound books to me, whenever I ask him how to do a math problem.
Also when I prove him wrong, he gets mad and denies he even is wrong, and storms out of the room, snapping at everyone he sees. He even gets mad when I get a boyfriend. He thinks I am a total slut and he doesn't trust me because I took my ex (was my boyfriend) to my room once(while my friends were there with me!) thinking I would have sex with him (and I am a virgin!!!) on my bed. This angers me because my friends have gotten laid mass times and their parents trust them to go to their rooms with their boyfriend or girlfriend.
He yells at me when my grades aren't good enough. I am getting As and Bs this year but my dad doesn't think it's good enough. He always discourages me when I want to do something, and he stresses me so much I cry. And when I cry, he gets angry and calls me a big baby. He hurts me so horribly bad I just start thinking of not living, because he makes me feel worthless =[
What can I do???
Sorry that this is long, but thanks for your time.
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It's perfectly normal for him to not want you to be alone in your room with your boyfriend. It's not that he doesn't trust you or that he thinks you're a slut. It's that he's being a good parent. That's what parents do. He, however, is not a good parent overall. Not even close. He is abusing you physically and mentally. You need to get out of that situation. My advice to you would be to tell a counselor at your school or a teacher that you really trust. What your dad is doing needs to stop. If he can't find a way to control it, living with him is not a good idea. You could get seriously hurt. He makes you feel worthless, but deep down, you know you're not. Do what you need to do for yourself because you're worth it. Your dad is messing up. Don't subject yourself to his mistakes any longer. Once the abuse is gone, you'll feel so much better about yourself and you'll be a whole lot happer. Good luck.
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well, you should talk to him. ask him what his deal is. ask him why the only words that come out of his mouth are when he`s saying something bad to/about you. ask him why the only times he moves is to throw stuff at you or hit you. talk to siblings/your mom/your grandparents about it. just see what`s up. you need to figure this out. &you`re not worthless. "no one can make you feel inferior without your consent." remember that. if i were in you position, i probably would of snapped by now. haha. well, i hope this helped. &i hope you work it out.
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