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What to do?
Im sorta a shy person when it comes to doing sexual things w/my boyfriend..like i wont make the first move because i dont want to look stupid. Right now we do nothing more than make out in just our underwear. i want to do more but i dont know what to do, how to start, or even when to do it. im not talking about sex because we are not ready for that but just other things.
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Hey if you are nervous about making the first move the chances are that he is too, belive me i've been there and it isn't easy for us guys either but if he is moving his hands all over it is a SURE sign that he wants to put them somewhere. So maybee help him out a bit, move his hands where you want them to be. For example if you want him to feel your breasts put his hands there if you don't want to move his hands totally then put them just underneath and hope he gets the hint if not just nudge him a bit. Maybee he is just nervous aswell. Maybe just sit down and talk to him about it or not even that but when you guys are making out just tell him it is ok to touch me there. i hope i helped :):)
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like the person before me said, hands are essential.
pay attention to where he's putting his hands. and if he tends to be moving them around a lot, its a sure sign that he probably wants to put them somewhere. i mean come on. hes a teenage guy. so dont worry about looking stupid.
try grabbing his hand and placing it where you want it to go. for example, try sliding it up to your chest. if you don't want to be too forward then just slide it up right before it hits your chest and then let go and see if he gets the hint. if not, just put his hand right on there. try doing this while in the straddle make out position. guys tend to like this.
this way, if he knows that your interested in more than just making out, he may try to make the moves from now on. hope i helped!
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Something to think about is how when you start to make out, where do your hands end up on each other. One thing would be like trying to massage each other a little bit. Or when you hug maybe help guide his hands around on your body. I'm not sure how to do it without not making the first move but maybe kind of if you notice him like start moving his hands toward your breasts or butt, just give him a little nudge. You could try to have him get the hint.
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