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really confusing.


Question Posted Monday January 29 2007, 9:24 pm

okay, so theres this guy. i like him. a lot. but i don`t think he likes me. in fact, i really doubt he does. but hes such a sweety. he always flirts with me and stuff. so a while ago, before winter break, we made out and stuff when he snuck me out. then, we didnt talk much. after winter break, we started talking more and stuff. he snuck me out again last night, and i dont know what came over me, but i had sex with him. i only saw him once today and i gave him a hug and then had to go to class. i dont know what to do now. tomorrow, i probably wont see him all day, because i have iss. but like, i dunno if i should talk to him about it or what. because when i talked to him after the first time, he just said how it was spur of the moment and stuff. i know it was really stupid to do this, and i know it probably sounds real slutty, but now, i dunno what i should do.

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Sabine answered Monday January 29 2007, 10:15 pm:
It doesn't sound like you're slutty. Try talking to him again at your next opportunity and if he's chatty and asks you out on a real date great. If not, then he doesn't want to be with you - just wants to fool around. It sounds like he's using you if he wants to "sneak" you out and do things with you and then doesn't want to talk the next day. Are you okay with being his screw? If you want a real relationship, demand one. If he won't have a relationship, stop having sex with him. The next time he comes to sneak you out tell him to buzz off.

Sabine

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