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Hey, there's this guy I like, but does he like me?
Heya. You've got a boyfriend...how can you tell if someone likes you?
There's this guy, Elijah, and I met him about a year ago at karate. The biggest problem is, he goes to one school and I go to another, so I only see him once a week. When I do see him, I don't really get to talk to him at all. Now we like a lot of the same things, and it's shocking because every other guy I know is like...well, an idiot.
The other day, I even got him to try out for a play, because he was nervous and never tried out for one. Well, my friend's friend goes to his school and she says he's been in all of the plays before, he's never had a girlfriend, and that he's a loser. It was horrible!
It's just I've never felt like this before! I think about him, seeing him, being with him, and I feel so thrilled. I can't stop thinking about him, he's driving me crazy!
I do think he likes me. He'll quickly look away when I look at him and he kind of gets nervous around me, but also tries to act all macho and stuff. The only thing that bothers me is...if what my friend's friend says is right...why would he lie to me about not being in plays? Is he trying to impress me? Is he trying to get rid of me (I hope to God he's not!)? Please help me!
~Swiss
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hm. you know its possible your friend's friend made it up, or maybe she got him confused with someone else? she could like him. if not, maybe he told you he hadnt been in plays so that youd support him and be there for him, so he could get closer to you in a way. my boyfriend and i go to different schools as well, and you and this guy sound like me and him. we only got to see each other once a week for a long time, but we got along extremely well and had soo much in common, and we definitely fell for each other. im sure it could be the same way with you and this guy. try to get more time with him, just the two of yall if you can, and see what happens. maybe drop some hints that youre into him, just be flirty, and see if he responds. if he does, im pretty sure he likes you. and from what i read, it surely seems like it! you could just be extra brave and ask him out [its scary let me tell you lol], but if he says yes then its so worth it! so what if hes never had a girlfriend and is a "loser"? you like him and thats that, he sounds like a really great guy from what i can tell! but it doesnt sound like he's trying to get rid of you at all. just keep doing what youre doing and make him see that youre into him. you said hes nervous around you, so he might not ask you out or anything if shes shy, so you may have to make the first move, but go for it! im sure itll all work out =] good luck girl!
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