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school can tottaly suck =[
kay so at school people say stuff that im a lesbian and trust me i am NOT. i don't know why they think it because i never really do anything that would show i am. people mostly say it behind my back but then people say it to my face too (mainly guys). this seriously gets me upset- i don't show it in school, i'll just say something like "oh yeah totally" in a sarcastic way. its pretty upsetting because firstly people are saying stuff that isn't true. i never had a boyfriend before (by choice its not that i have never been asked). like if i ever get asked out by a guy i turn them down because a) i don't like them b) i just couldn't get out with them because there like my best friends c) because im kinda picky =\. and theres this one guy who asked me out three times and has liked me so many times before, but problem is hes African American. and its not like im racists because im NOT and neither is my family. its just that, that so wouldn't be excepted in my family (even though my parents like him). so maybe thats one reason why people think im a lezbain because i wont go out with people. its not like people make fun of me all the time, just every once in a while like, something a wise ass would say =|. i really want this to stop. please help.
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I totally agree. For a while, people called me a lesbian just because I started wearing a bra in 5th grade! People can be so stupid.
I am really picky about boys too. Noone ever seems good enough for me. I'm kind of the same way, because I'm not racist, but I just think it'd feel awkward for me to date out of my race.
Sounds like these people at school need to get their facts straight. What you should do is stand up to them. Not by being sarcastic. By straight up telling them how it is. If you let this go on, it may escalate into worse things. That's why you have to stop it right now.
The next time a guy calls you a lesbian, say, "I'm sorry that no guys are good enough to meet my standards." or "I'm sorry, but boys like YOU are too ugly for me to date."
Or if thats not working, you should just tell them off. Say, "Listen, I'm not a Lesbian. I'm just not boy crazy like all of you, because I'm not a baby. So shut up and find something better to talk about in your PATHETIC little lives."
Sorry this is so long, but I have another thing you could say if a girl calls you a lesbian. You could say something like, "I think you're just jealous of me." Then when the girl says, "No I'm not," you can be like, "Yeah. I think you are since you spend all your free time talking about me. Loser." It totally worked for me.
Bottom line is, don't feel pressured to go out with anyone. If you don't like the guy, don't go out with him. I know exactly how you feel, but getting into a relationship with someone you don't really like, is a bad idea. You don't need a boyfriend to be happy. You're probably fairly young, so just enjoy life for now, and someday, a great guy WILL come into your life.
P.S.-- When people were calling me a Lesbian just because I didn't have a boyfriend, I made up a fake one on Myspace! I even printed out his picture and put it in my school binder! Haha!
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