Xenolan answered Monday January 22 2007, 5:40 pm: I think it's great when she takes charge. It shows that she's into it and enjoying it, which is the biggest turn-on of all.
Actually, I would be seriously concerned about a guy who was unwilling to let a woman take charge in bed. It indicates that he's a controlling person in other ways, on an unhealthy level. So not only is it something your guy should enjoy, it's also a good test to see what kind of man he ultimately is.
One thing - No still means No, even if it's a guy saying it and even if it looks like his body is saying Yes. Respect his boundaries as you would want him to respect yours. [ Xenolan's advice column | Ask Xenolan A Question ]
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