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a very deep love question
i know that this is goin to seem really wierd and sound kind of depressing but here goes.....why does it seem like that everytime my best freind's life get perfect (oiu know she get the guy she wants) and she doesn't even have to work hard to get them but when her life get perfectm ine just falls apart....meaning i have to work my butt off and still can't get the guy i wnat and i want my guy more than she wanted hers....she just thought her was cute and i'm like in love with my guy.......okay it's not that deep of a love question.
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Gee, I don't remember asking this question. Wait, I didn't, but I could have.
What I mean to say by this attempt at comical relief is that this happens to many of us. Sometimes people around us get what they want without trying at all while the ones who are working the hardest don't get anything.
Think of it this way, your friend could go through tons of guys but never find the 'right one' but you could end up with only a few and end up with the 'right one' in the end. It all depends on which perspective you look at and how you perceive different situations. Try to keep things on the positive side rather than negative.
You shouldn't have to worry about this until later. (depending on your age, probably in your teens based on the attitude...he he)
As for my opinion on your situation, I think that the 'right guy' will find you and you shouldn't have to work too hard for him. As for the guy you like now, tell him and if it works out who knows, the 'right one' could have been in front of you the whole time.
Hope this is what you were looking for. =]
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okay, i know this is the last thing you wanna hear, but.. be yourself. if the boy doesnt want/like u the way u are, then forget it. your already better then him. most girls like.. change theirselves so much for a guy, but it takes guts to be real. & if he still doesnt like u, hes immature.
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