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My Love and My Parents.


Question Posted Friday January 19 2007, 7:38 pm

Ok I am 14/F. There is this guy that I would do anything for! I love him to death most may think aww phh you dont know what love is. All I can say is F*ck you. But yes I really did love him! I tried my very best to stay with him and we were together for about 3 months. Everything was good we were happy together every moment available we spent together, he came to my softball practices and all that my mom loved him. She even told me that the only reason I was alowed to go to the riverfront for 4th Of July was because she felt I was safe with him!
One day, a couple of my friends, and him went over to my friends house. Well we were all there and I started feeling light headed and I told him We will call him Bryan. But Bryan was like Do you need to sit down? As soon as I sat down barfed.. lol so I went home, he wanted to stayy with me so I called my mom and asked if he could come home with me because he wanted to make sure I was OK. But my mom said no..
Well that night I talked to my g-ma who i used to trust. and I asked her why my dad didnt like him.. She was talkign about that Bryan is only with me for sex. I was like if that was the case why the fuck did he clean my puke up off the floor, and hold me all the way home? She was liek i dunno and I mentioned something about him asking me to be his one day. But i told her he meant marrying him but she still took it as having sex with him and she went ot my folks and all that shit... and now im not suppoe to see him and they put a restraining order against him. Well I love him soo much that my heart aches today everytime i think of him. He nor I have dated anyone since this happened and it has been about 4 months. I saw him today all i said was I love you. and he said it to me and I left I was afraid of getting caught... I dont want him to get into anymore trouble. He is going about for a 6 or 8 months and I will not see him for longer than that.. What do yall think about this?


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cheifbritneeilu answered Friday January 19 2007, 8:00 pm:
well. first i just want you to know tht you two sound really cute together . but , theres not really anything your able to do. talk to your parents. i wouldnt suggest that you sneak out or anything, that would only make things worse. you could always ask your parents why they think like that. say to them that you love him + if they say your love isnt real just say that it is. but dont do anything stupid.. try also talking to the attourney getting the restraining order + in four years your able to do what you want anyway ! hope this helps.

britnee

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khadiya answered Friday January 19 2007, 7:47 pm:
Honestly there is nothing you van do. Yo can try to talk to your parents but they seem like they already got their minds made up. You are only 14. So they think they know what is best. The only thing i can really say is good luck.

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