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my boyfriend
my boyfriend doesnt seem like the type to be bump and grinded or dance period. or like the kind to make out. we've kissed but not serious kisses just pecks. he lives in another state and i'd like to get a little more serious. but i dont want to bump and grind and for him to feel uncomfortabe. and i dont want to french kiss him and him to feel awkward or not know what to do. but i've never frenched kissed. how can i get him to french kiss me w/out me ask'n him or me making the first move. thanks and sorry for so many questons at once. thanks again!
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Well, I think you should just ask him to kiss you. If he doesn't want to, he's probaly just not ready, or he may just be really nervous. Ask him if he is nervous. Tell him you are to but you want to be closer to him. Tell him you like him so much that you want your first time french kissing to be with him. Thats what I did with my first boyfriend and he wanted to do it right away after that. You should be very understanding with him. He may even be afraid that if he does it, he may be feeling like you may regret it later. Maybe he's just afraid he will hurt you. Thats how it is with a lot of guys. Just sit down on the couch next time you see him, and ask him whats up. Listen to his side. He may have a very good reason that you just dont know about yet. He may also feel that you guys haven't been going out long enough to do it.But if you really reallly want to get him to kiss you like make out with you, do little things next time you see him like, be really flirty. Tickle him, giggle a lot. Maybe even lick your lips.
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well let me just give you my story of my and my bf...my bf lives about 3 hours away from me which is along ways like your man! i kinda felt the same way you did at first. I made the first move though and he liked it. He told me he was just scared that i didn't want his tongue in my mouth! Even though i still think it was to soon for me to do something like that but ohh well..talk to your bf about it i'm sure he feels the same way you do..
dani <3
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May be deep down he's scared he might be a bad kisser. Ask him "hey babe, listen i know this may seem a little awkward but, i like you alot and i think maybe our raltionship should be a little deeper." okay. Ask him if he's scared. If he really cares about he would go on and kiss. It doesn't even have to be french tounge rolling around in eachother mouth. just maybe a little more deeper kiss but not to deep. ok. Later send back if you like the advice.
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