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Ex Gf likes me but I like a guy.
I don't know what to do. I'm a girl, btw.
This girl likes me.. a lot apparently. I'm a sophomore and she's still in middle school. We went out for a while but I broke up with her. I wasn't sure if I really liked her.
Now I'm opening up to people and getting closer to my friends.. which is good (instead of hiding in a shell, right?) I have always been shy so I decided to change things around.. I talked to some old guy friends. One of them.. actually talks to me on his own and whatnot. He seems to like my sense of humor and asks me about my day.
I think I might like him [I did before when we were in middle school, so he's not some weirdo] and I told him I might develop feelings for him in time.
But the girl says she's going to wait for me because she doesn't want ANYONE else.
I'm not sure what to say. I don't like hurting people. Because I'm really not ready for a relationship [with a girl I suppose]. And somehow.. I'm going to be a hypocrite for not wanting a relationship with her but with someone else. We are kinda like best friends and it's just hard..
I mean I'm almost 16 and I'm no longer looking for serious relationships anymore. It's nearly impossible to find. They lead to heartbreak x3254242. So I'm taking it easy and..I just want to date without it being really serious.
I don't know what to do.. I feel really guilty about liking people and wanting relationships with guys and not her. I don't know what to say [in a nice way] so she doesn't end up hating me.
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Hey,
WEll, i think you should follow your heart and not worry about what anyone else is going to feel you have to worry about yourself and do whats best for you!
obviously you broke up with her for a reeason!!! maybe be open with her and try and keep a friendship with her!!! explain the way you feel and say how your not looknig for anything serious!!!
Best of luck!
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In my honest opinion, I do not think you should feel guilty. If you have explained to her, that you're sorry, but you feel like you should move on and not be in a serious relationship, then you shouldn't feel guilty. I can understand not wanting to hurt someone's feelings, but at least you know you haven't led her on or made her think that you're going to get back together. It's more than some people will do. However, if you haven't told her this, then I would definitely do that. Good luck, I'm sure everything will work out okay!
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