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Continuation of my postings...Thank u for answering
Thank you so much for taking time to help me out. I appreciate it. Ok for the details why we have to part ways is that: HIS REASONS: 1. HE SAYS HE NEED TO SPEND TIME WITH OTHER FRIENDS TOO. You see for 4 yrs we both have been like centered to each other. We hang out, we travel, we do most of the things together. We don't live together but almost 3-5 times a week we are together. 2. WE HAVE DIFFERENT RELIGION. He says he has been committing many unchristian things. He wants us to fix things but not as lovers but as friends. MY REASONS : 1. I BECAME TO ATTACHED, TOO emotionally dependent to the extent that I make plans making sure it will blend on my time. And if the appointments would interfere with my time with him, i cancelled all my appointments. 2. I know the feeling is no longer healthy. I am in love. I would give anythings... but I am sure if I continue this path I will lose myself. I will lose my career, I will lose even the friendship I also maintain with him So you see, we both have different reasons.. but bottom line it is the RIGHT thing TO DO...If only the PAIN isn't this STRONG... i AM LOSING A GRIP ON MYSELF. But the more that I will linger with him it will also be fatal because by then we might end up HATING each other. Sorry for my ignorance... I am so new in this site that I don't know where to place additonal info... PLease help me. .
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Well it's quite okay that you're new to the site. To add additional information, go to the blue side column on the left and click on "Your Questions". Find the question you want to add to, open it up, and right underneath where your question is typed out there's a link that says "add additional information to it".
As for your situation, I think that you and your ex had the right idea by splitting up. I think it would be better if you stayed together and decided to take a break though. I think that you two could really be good together and that the reasons why you broke up, even though they are good reasons, can be overcome. If you were on a break there would be a greater possibility that you would be getting back together. See if you can get him to do that. In that way, you'd have something to hold onto and look forward to to help you get through what you need to do. Tell him that it would help you out and it wouldn't be any different from being broken up that it's just a mental thing. That isn't entirely true, but it's not a lie either and it might get him to agree.
Good luck! :)
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