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betrayed
so i've liked this guy for a while now.
well i told one of my good friends how
i hooked up with him. she told me how happy
she was for me and everything. well about a week later she goes a hooks up with him! then she tells
my other friends that me and her are after the
same guy now. what do i do? and why did she
do it?
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First, make sure that she did. It could just be a rumor. Since you hooked up with him and you're her friend, some people may have confused the two of you or something. Never believe what other people say. Get it from your friend directly. If you're right and she did hook up with him and all, I would question not only her, but the guy you like as well. It takes two to tango. If he hooked up with her, he's either in it just for a piece of ass or he doesn't really like you as much as you like him. Either way, it would be best not to pursue him anymore. He's a slut and he's just going to break your heart. Let your friend have him and let your friend's heart get broken. She deserves it after what she did to you. This isn't something that you should necessarily end the friendship over, though. First, it's not like you were dating him yet. Second, it could have just been a one time mistake that she does feel bad or sorry for. When you talk to her about whether she did it or not, see if she feels bad or sorry at all. If she does, try to remain friends with her. It's never good to lose a friend. Good luck!
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I would consider wether you really want friends with this girl or not - she clearly knew what she was doing, and she knew you liked him. She's not a very good friend at all, if you ask me.
Now if she hadn't known and such, that would just be a clear mistake, and I'm sure she wouldn't have meant to do it.
I would have a talk with her about it, and ask her why she would do that to you, and hook up with this guy when she clearly knows you liked him and you confided in her.
The most I would do is not trust her anymore with information obviously, and see if you want to continue a friendship with her. And with the guy? See what happens with him, and just flirt with him alot and everything ; but if he's gonna be hooking up with your friends, he doesn't sound like a very good guy for you, either. I'm sure he knew what he was doing, too.
I hope I helped.
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