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friends
uh well i used to have so many friends and i could just be myself around everyone and people liked me, but i never really appreciated it. I went through something when some people thought i was annoying and my best friend was pretending to be my friend but really talked about me. now i have her back and people dont think im annoying anymore, but i try so hard to be outgoing or whatever and make a lot of people like me that its like getting harder and harder to be myself . its stupid because i just overthink being "outgoing" because i want a lot of people to like me, so sometimes i guess ican act a little weird. like i always have friends but i lost a couple during that time.
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listen, first of all, people are stupid. just thought i'd point that out. ok so, the question you need to ask your self is, if you cant be yourself with your "friends", then are they realy your friends at all? if you have to change yourself just to be friends with those people, then you dont realy need them as friends, if they cant except you for the great person you are, then why bother tring to impress them. bottom line: you should respect yourself and be yourself, stop listening to what others think, and make friends with people who like you for who you are.
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