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adopted
alright well i'm adopted and im 14 right now, almost 15. and the parents that i live with and my birth mom send letters/pictures back and forth. and kind of a while ago, the mom that i live with and i were talking about me meeting my birth mother. and she said i would probably meet her around the age of 18-24. but i really want to meet her now. and i have a little brother and a little sister, and i wanna meet them too. and i wanna be a part of their lives.
i guess my question is:
do you think its the right time to meet them?
and how should i bring this up with the mom that i live with?
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I can't tell you exactly when it's going to be the right time or not for you to meet your birth mother ; that's something only you'll know & feel. If you feel you're ready, let your [current] mother know, and just sit down with her sometime soon and talk with her about it.
They might feel 18-24 is a better age cause you'll be a little more older and they might you could handle it better emotionally and everything.
Like I said before, just sit down with your mother, and ask her about your birth mother and why the feel you must wait so long to meet her, and that you feel you're ready NOW to meet her. You really want to be a part of their lives and want to get to know your other family and see what they're like.
I hope I helped.
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