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okay i have a bf, and we've been going out for like 3 months and we like each other, not love nothing serious. and i started to not like him anymore as much cause hes at another school and a year apart (though we live close) and we never see each other and he never calls me or stuff, we basically talk online only like once a day. so i told him a super big secrect of mine that i had sex before, and like ive told my 3 best friends and him. and the guy i did it with was like the love of my life and i went through alot with him, and if he told me nevre to tell anyone (basically in a nut shell i was like used, broken hearted, used again, and again). so i told my bf now and i want to break up with him, were still going to be friends we promised, but i dont want him knowing. we havent talked about it alot but i feel like i should just say i was lieing aand trying to look experianced. i know i will make a ass out of myself but i feel thats the only way. i really donkt know what to do?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Who exactly don't you want to know? If you can trust your [ boyfriend ] as a friend, don't lie to him and tell him otherwise. It will make you look bad but he might think that you lied to him about other things. Ask if he would just keep his mouth shut and hopefully he won't spread the word around. Telling him a big thing like that only after dating 3 months wasn't the smartest thing, but you can't take it back. Just wait and see what happens but I'm not going to try and stop you from doing what you want. If you think that telling him you lied is the best thing for you, then do so. Good luck.
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