14/f
heres the thing. im a little chubby, just slightly overweight. i like this kid who is exactly the same, but i am attracted to him, and just OBSESSED with him. i am friends with him through another friend but my other friend has asked him and he doesn't like me. well me him and my other friend are going to hang out this week so i just wanted to know what i can do to get him to notice me. its weird because we look like we are MADE for eachoter, we make a good couple (well i think), we both play tennis, we both like computers, video games, etc. and i really want to be with him. i feel like i'm annoying him but i never really talk to him though because of that. i am just so confused and i am sick of having imaginations of us together rather than the real thing. so my questions are:
should i continue liking him? or give up because i already know its pointless?
and what can i do to get his attention?
xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx answered Tuesday January 16 2007, 3:36 am: 1. never give up on a guy if you think he wont like you. He might have just said he doesnt like you to your friend to hide his feelings. If you like him ask him out!
2. To get his attention try to talk about things that hes interested in which should be easy because you both like the same things. Touch his arm when you talk to him, and smile and laugh. Wear something eye catching, something nice to get him to think "wow shes pretty" And be confident with yourself and your body. You can wear a little of some nice perfume but dont use to much so that hes gasping for air every 2 seconds. Just have fun! i hope everything works out for you =] Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx [ xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx's advice column | Ask xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx A Question ]
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