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Boy mix up
Ok so im 15 (f) and i havent ever had a boyfriend .. i mean i talk to a few guys but none of them seem interseted ... and we never really hang out .. i really want a boyfriend ...so there is this guy that i talk to and whenever he talked to me everyone would say ooo you like her ask her out blah blah blah .. but i dont think he does like me ... so now he refuses to talk to me, since people made a big deal out of it ... i want him to know thati just want to be friends and talk to him .. HELP im loosing guys by the minutes and thats the last thing i need!
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Ok first off, everyone gets boyfriends at different times. And the guys you do talk to probably see you as too much of a friend to take it any further. Find a guy you don't talk to/hang out with that much and start talking to him and flirt with him, let him know your interested. As for the guy refusing to talk to you, he may actually have feelings for you and doesnt like how everyone is making such a big deal out of it. But that may not be true at all. Since he refuses to talk to you face to face write him an email or IM him and let him know that you just want to be friends and what everyone else says doesn't matter. Or you could write him a note and give it to him at school. But your best bet would be to get him alone at school and tell him, exactly how you feel and where you want to be with him relationship wise (i.e friends, bf/gf, not friends)
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I've had that same problem before. Everytime I talk to a guy all of my friends think that i like him. What you need to do is continue to talk to him, but not in a flirty way. And if anybody asks you if you like him, tell them no that way he won't be pressued into asking you out if he doesn't want to.
about getting a boyfriend, its ok to not have a boyfriend right now. think of it this way, its not like your going to marry him. plus most relationships when your young don't last very long, maybe just weeks.
don't let not having a boyfriend bring you down. guys like girls with confidence so be confident in yourself and guys will like that. eventually you'll meet a guy that you really like, trust me.
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