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i dont know what to do
i feel like shitt right now ....i dont know what to do anymore ...just 2 hours ago my older sister asked my dad for a psp and he went out and bought it for her came home and gave it to her. i knoe what it looks like and yea im not going to deny it im jelous and mad and i have a right to be both because she did the same thing when she asked for a laptop she didnt have to begg my dad and he got it for her...thats not the only thing she has ....she also has a cell phone from cingular and a digital camera shes hooked with all the electronics...the only thing i have is a prepaid cell phone from virgin mobile and a bootleg computer (not laptop) im sick of seeing her get everything she wants and with me another story. ive tried talking to him and telling him how i feel ive tried asking for some of the stuff she has and he starts a fight with me and how i dont deserve anything when shes done worse stuff than i have shes tried weed and i havent even gotten close to a cigarrette. im so mad i really wanted some of the stuff she has but what gets me frustrated is that everytime he buys her anything she always says she'll let me use it but she NEVER does to use her laptop or digital camera i have to use it without her finding out. what should i do? ive tried everything.
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It may be because she is older. It also depends on your age and hers. But it never seems fair.
Here is a possible bright side for you:
I have an older brother. When we were growing up, he got more things than I did. He had, what I thought at the time, more "luxuries" than me. It wasn't that he was spoiled, it was just that he was the older, and more "responsible" of the two of us.
It doesn't seem fair, but I promise, you will be the more responsible in life of the two of you.
My brother, I love him dearly, doesn't have his priorities straight and is not the most responsible of people. He seems to think everything should be handed to him in life. And he has nothing to show for anything. Sad, but true.
I learned how it is to work for what you get, and be thankful to even get it. I worked when I was in school. I didn't make much, but could buy small things I wanted. I learned that the material things in life aren't worth jack when compared to the needs in life, and I am a very content person.
I know it sucks, but hang in there and try not to get too worked up about it. Everyone gets what they deserve in life, eventually. And seldom does life seem fair.
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